Sunday, September 20, 1998

How can I have more confidence?

This guy I liked asked me to go to the beach with him (alone!). The problem is, I'm super self-conscious about my body. I'm not fat, but I'm a little pale. People say I have a nice body, but I only see my flaws. We're not going until next week, but I'm already crash dieting. How can I overcome this? Should I even go?

Answer on How can I have more confidence?

He asked you out, he's into you. Don't worry about how you look. Be in the moment. Self-conscious isn't attractive and he'll notice if you're not comfortable. Make sure you're wearing something you're comfortable in. Just be yourself. Like I said, he did asked you out, he wouldn't have if he didn't already like you.