Monday, February 24, 1997

How do i say no to this girl asking for my northface without being too passive or pushy?

theres this girl i see like every week and were not that good friends. i got a north face like a year ago and the arms are a little bit short but everything else fits. so she was like oh can i have it and i wasnt really paying attention and i was like yeah whatever so a few days ago she inboxed me on facebook and she was "like omg when yur blue northface doesnt fix you can i have it ? lol which is probably soon cus it already looks small ish ." not even a hey, or i havent seen you in a while or anything like that. 1. i feel kind of used. 2. were not really good friends. 3. im kind of poor, i paid for the jacket myself, and i have a little sister who could probably use it in a year. what do i say to the girl? i feel like i cant flat out say no or she would get mad at me or something. should i just say that my sister needs it?

Answer on How do i say no to this girl asking for my northface without being too passive or pushy?

Sure you can. Tell her that you are sorry you agreed to give it to her, but you promised to give it to your sister when you were finished with it and family comes first.

(I find it is very "in" these days to be close to family which I like). If she gets pissy about it, too bad. She's not that important in your life, is she? And think it is rude of her to say that it doesn't fit you - what a creep.