Thursday, May 5, 1994

How can i get my boyfriend to understand how i feel about him being friends with his ex's?

my boyfriend see theres nothing wrong with him having his ex's as friends on facebook. i dont talk to any of my ex's because i see no point as to what they can do for me. if i wanna talk to someone i talk to my boyfriend, and if i want someone to cheer me up or make me happy i talk to my BOYFRIEND. sooo how can i get him to understand how i feel even just a little bit. ):

Answer on How can i get my boyfriend to understand how i feel about him being friends with his ex's?

It depends on the break-up, do they have kids together, how long were they together? Was it a friendly split? (Yes, these do happen. My ex and I agreed that we had come to the end, but we don't hate each other and wish each other happiness.) Maybe they decided to remain friends... They are so many variables here. Maybe you're being a little jealous and insecure? My ex and I are FB friends, and text each other a couple of times a week to see how the other is doing. His new wife and my fiance are completely understanding that there is still a friendship there. On the other hand, my fiance's ex made up some false charges and had him and I thrown in jail. She's spiteful and vindictive, and I would be appalled if he were friends with her...
It's all a matteer of perspective. It'd be easier on everyone if those two could be friends. I would prefer it to all of the nastiness...